Set Your Success In Mind Before Achieving It.

Tezender Singh
6 min readOct 19, 2022

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Are you failing to optimize your day?

Some obvious reasons may be procrastination, exhaustive socialization, distracted self or something synonymous. Right?

Start enhancing your MINDSET to Marketing Yourself better.

“Life is 80% Mindset and 20% Strategy” -famous researcher

believe in “I Can!” to drive results.
Transform Your Habits one after the other .
Always accept positive state of mind.
Get yourself productive.
Measure Health, Diet, Exercise.

You already know why your efforts are not resulting into optimum results. Rights?

Do you know and act on any solution to such degradations?

If Yes, Congratulations! you are optimistically progressing in your life ahead. This conversation is less meaningful for you than your regular tasks.

If No, then you clicked on the right spot to show progress by reading and start working.

Thankfully! you can free yourself from such degradations simply by Your own actions.

Eager to know How?

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Start by thinking “I Can!”. There is no universal right and wrong in objective reality. Your identity is more of what you reject over what you accept. The best is to come up with your own right and wrong. Establish and maintain your identity to them. Act wisely upon something you find wrong. Stand for all your beliefs and think of today as a part of it.

Challenging other’s opinion is okay to seek the truth. Seeking truth is exploring and living life to its fullest. It makes your life meaningful and productive. It drives you to your ultimate reality and true results.
Growth, progress, success, are synonymous to intentional efforts. Start creating clear thoughts and definition on your WHY.

You can “Start with Why” by Simon Sinek. I truly recommend you read this book to enhance constructing your mindset.

Start With Why

“Change is the only constant in life.” — Heraclitus

Upon reading this book you will start to realize that you need improvement in yourself. You would love to Transform. First, accept to free yourself from your current identity and keep evolving for your betterment. People tries to put you back to your previous self thinking you are getting unfamiliar to your previous identity.

They need not understand it by your words, show them with your efforts and later they will start liking to accept your new self. Keep Challenging your brain by doing productive activities you fear the most. It may be Public Speaking, Content Publishing, Singing in Public, Swimming, Dancing, etc.

Participation leads to evolution and progressive evolution leads to massive success. Seek only the expert’s advice in a niche. Remember, your social networks will change only by first accepting and changing yourself. It will further leads to change in your net-worth.

Mahendra Singh Dhoni ( a living legend )
M. S. Dhoni

“I focus only on changing my controllable ones.”Mahendra Singh Dhoni

An example of the living legend from Ranchi, the capital city of Jharkhand. He stated it publicly to only focus on the controllable. Is he your Inspiration of life? Comment it immediately!

You only need to have proper control over your actions. Only a deserving can enjoy the true happiness of any wealth he possess in relationship with money, health, family, friends, etc.

Change yourself to deserve what you aspire to accomplish. Never settle yourself to others’ opinions on these assets of life. Invite, welcome and preach your belongings. They will take care of you. Get inspiration from others’ success and accomplishments.

Transforming dreamed vision into reality is the ultimate height of your true success. Start dreaming big and paying for your belongings. Nothing in life is free of efforts, time or money.

Now, Value others’ efforts, time and money. You get valued in return from others. It may not be the same person you consider. But your efforts will be returned to you in abundance.

This is a positive state of mind that offers you the joy of giving happiness to others in return of intangible satisfaction, happiness and empowerment. It energize you and enhance your willingness to be the best version of you all the time. It optimize your positive state of mind essentially required for quality work with discipline.

Atomic Habits Book
Atomic Habits by James Clear

Being observant and responsive through self-control is what leaders nurture in themselves over reactive responding. You can also meditate to get the best results. Learn building such habits with the world’s famous author James Clear, who published his work in his book “ Atomic Habits” . Read and implement the four Laws he states to create or break any habits of yours with minimal efforts.

Laws of braking and building Habits by James Clear
Laws to create or break habits from Atomic Habits

The best of Positive Emotional States you need to be in are:

Joy | Appreciation | Empowered | Freedom | Love
Passion
Enthusiasm | Eagerness | Happiness
Positive expectations | Belief
Optimism
Hopefulness
Satisfaction | Contentment

Praying, Running, Meditation, Reading good books, Ted-Talks, Writing, Pets/ kids can significantly help you to enhance your emotional state for quality life.

Being positive means a big NO to distractions. Find and remove them with Atomic Habits by James Clear. Plan your day, give structure to your ideas, vision and imagination, with a sense of hope to survive with you.
Invest your time to transform your imaginary vision into reality. That’s the purpose of life. Know more of your life purpose by talking to IKIGAI. Have open conversation with it. Remember, it works!

IKIGAI (Secret to Happiness and Longevity)

IKIGAI also helps you with exercising routines, daily food habits, removes conflicts of being vegetarian or non-vegetarian. It brings you to the new lifestyle of health and happiness of achievers with several rereads and practices. It talks very clearly about happiness and longevity in life.

“You improve better in what you measure” Ancient Greeks

Measuring your growth is the only true satisfaction with consistency. Get yourself tested periodically for your overall health with full body medical checkups. The ultimate phrase of insight is to “live your fullest, by setting you free”. Be serious about your actions, taking charge of your character and habit are some disciplinaries to set you free.

I strongly believe that the root cause of all pains and struggle is procrastination. You have to prepare your mindset to market yourself well.
It starts from you, what you think is more important to you than other’s opinions about you.

Start implementing these tips to find the miracle hidden inside you. I personally suggest you to read IKIGAI atleast once.

Next, You can also go through all these recommendations like Start With Why, Atomic Habits, IKIGAI, etc. to explore the journey to new you and establish it.

Make your vision into reality with good books, intentions and actions.
I am open to your doubts and opinions in the comment section.

Don’t forget to tell me about your ideal inspiration. Is it M.S. Dhoni?

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Tezender Singh

Student 🚸Mentor for today's struggling 👨‍🦱youths || Performance Marketing Specialist || Public Speaker